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Our Greek Advisor
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A Parent's Guide to Fraternity & Sorority Life at
Montclair State University
Sending a child to college
can be a challenging and stressful time in a parent's life. While at
Montclair State University (MSU), your child will encounter many
opportunities to become involved outside of their classroom experience.
It is important that you, the parent, be educated about the enriching
experience that your son or daughter will find by being involved in a
fraternity or sorority at MSU.
What is being
involved in a fraternity or sorority all about?
I know you have seen many interesting shows on television and read in
the newspaper, the reality is those particular situations are extreme
cases of fraternity and sorority life. What the media does not tell you
as a parent is that there are many life-long benefits to membership in
fraternities and sororities. At a growing university like MSU,
membership in a fraternity or sorority offers a home-away-from home and
makes the university setting a smaller more friendly community.
Additionally, national research has shown that involvement in
fraternities and sororities increases students' chances of graduating
from college. As a life-long member of a fraternity or sorority,
students are offered the opportunity to develop as leaders, serve the
local community, and focus on academics, as well as their careers, by
connecting with faculty, staff, and other students in addition; local
alumni members, advisors and other Greek organizations.
My son or daughter
is considering joining a fraternity or sorority, how should I advise
them?
Since joining a fraternity or sorority is a lifelong commitment, and
there is an expense associated with membership, it should be a joint
decision between student and parent. Consider sitting down with your son
or daughter and research all of the organizations that are available to
join. Utilizing local chapter and national websites are a great,
convenient way to gather information. Feel free to contact students who
are currently involved and their parents and ask them about their
experience. In most cases, both students and parents will speak candidly
about their Greek involvement.
As an educated parent,
consider asking the following questions before your child joins a
fraternity or sorority:
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What is expected of
fraternity/sorority members?
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How will membership affect my
academics?
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What leadership opportunities are
available to students as both new members and active members?
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Does the chapter perform hands-on
community service? If so, how often?
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Does the fraternity or sorority
require members to live in the facility (if housing is
available)? If so, for how long?
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What are the expenses associated
with membership? How does this vary as a new member?
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What type of member is the
chapter looking for?
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What values does this
organization promote?
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Is the organization officially
recognized by the University? If not, why is this the case?
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What is the time commitment?
I am not Greek, how can I
learn more about it?
Websites to take a closer look at:
What are the safety risks
associated with membership in a fraternity or sorority?
It can be perceived that fraternity or sorority membership may
compromise a student's safety and well-being. At MSU, we are
committed to having this not be the case. In order to be recognized
by the University, all Greek organizations are required to follow
fairly strict alcohol and risk management policies. The policies are
in accordance with the state law of Florida, and are enforced by
both MSU administrators and members of fraternities and sororities
themselves. In addition, all organizations should have at least one
alumni adviser and university faculty or staff advisor to assist and
ensure that the chapter is promoting a safe environment for its
members (both on and off campus.) Hazing is both against university
policy as well as state law. Hazing as defined by MSU Gold Rule/
Code of Conduct is as follows.
Hazing
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Any action or situation which
recklessly or intentionally endangers the mental or physical
health and/or safety of a student for the purpose of initiation
or admission into, or affiliation with, any organization
operating under registration with the University.
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Brutality of a physical nature
such as whipping, beating, branding, forced calisthenics,
exposure to the elements; forced consumption of any food,
liquor, drug, or other substances; or other forced elements; or
other forced activity which could adversely affect the physical
health or safety of the individual.
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Any activity which could subject
the individual to mental stress such as sleep deprivation,
forced exclusion from social contact, forced contact which could
result in embarrassment, or any other activity which could
adversely affect the mental health or dignity of the individual.
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Any activity, as described above,
upon which the initiation or admission into or affiliation with
a Montclair State University organization may be directly or
indirectly conditioned, shall be presumed to be a “forced”
activity, the willingness of an individual to participate in
such an activity notwithstanding.
The university has zero tolerance for
hazing! Both chapters and individuals members sign off stating they
understand these rules and regulations they will not partake in any
form of hazing. If you or someone you know is aware of any
violations against these regulations, please contact the Office of
Student Conduct or Fraternity and Sorority Life staff immediately.
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Fraternities
I.F.C
Pi Kappa Alpha
Tau Kappa Epsilon
Tau Phi Beta
Delta Chi
Theta Xi
N.P.H.C
Phi Beta Sigma
Omega Psi Phi
Kappa Alpha Psi
Iota Phi Theta
U.G.S.F.C
Lambda Theta Phi
Lambda Sigma Upsilon
Psi Sigma Phi
Lambda Upsilon Lambda
Sororities
N.P.C
Delta Phi Epsilon
Sigma Sigma Sigma
Sigma Delta Tau
Phi Sigma Sigma
I.S.C
Sigma Delta Phi
Delta Xi Delta
Alphi Iota Chi
Theta Kappa Chi
N.P.H.C
Alpha Kappa Alpha
Zeta Phi Beta
Sigma Gamma Rho
Delta Sigma Theta
U.G.S.F.C
Lambda Theta Alpha
Lambda Tau Omega
Chi Upsilon Sigma
Mu Sigma Upsilon
Omega Phi Chi
Co-Ed Professional
Based
Alpha
Kappa Psi
Phi Sigma Pi
For more information on any
of these organizations please click
here
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