{"id":216469,"date":"2021-10-19T16:56:09","date_gmt":"2021-10-19T20:56:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/?p=216469"},"modified":"2021-10-20T06:48:05","modified_gmt":"2021-10-20T10:48:05","slug":"taking-care-of-each-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/2021\/10\/19\/taking-care-of-each-other\/","title":{"rendered":"Taking Care of Each Other"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The return to campus for in-person learning has not only brought students, faculty and staff together \u2013 fully masked and mostly vaccinated \u2013 it is helping heal the wounds caused by the global pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen I walk on campus now and I see students playing Frisbee, playing the violin, running around \u2013 I do think that it feels like we&#8217;re all a part of something together because we can see it, and that feels really good,\u201d says <strong>Jaclyn Friedman-Lombardo<\/strong>, director of <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/counseling-and-psychological-services\/\" target=\"_blank\">Counseling and Psychological Services<\/a> (CAPS), whose department has been working diligently throughout the pandemic to help the campus community manage the stress and mental health challenges caused by the pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>Even so, it\u2019s important to recognize many are still dealing with the trauma of the last two years, plus experiencing some new anxiety, she says.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWithout a doubt, they&#8217;re out of practice and there are concerns about safety especially being in indoor spaces,\u201d she says. \u201cI don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s been easy for anyone.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"prpl-row\"><div class=\"prpl-column one-third\">\n<figure class=\"responsive-image-holder wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mlt-responsive-image\" data-original-image=\"\/newscenter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/10\/122012_7861_FriedmanLJ-scaled.jpeg\" src=\"\/responsive-media\/cache\/newscenter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/10\/122012_7861_FriedmanLJ-scaled.jpeg.0.1x.generic.jpg\" alt=\"Jaclyn Friedman-Lombardo, director of Counseling and Psychological Services\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jaclyn Friedman-Lombardo, director of Counseling and Psychological Services<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><div class=\"prpl-column two-thirds\">\n<p>A recent survey by Mental Health America shows that \u201csigns of anxiety and depression since the start of the pandemic hit an all-time high.\u201d In particular, the study noted that \u201cAbout 10% of youth in the U.S. have severe depression. In addition, this rate was highest among youth who identify as more than one race, at 12.4%.<\/p>\n<p>Friedman-Lombardo told CBS Evening News for its Back to School series this fall: \u201cIf kids don\u2019t have their mental health in check, those academics are going to plummet.\u201d She advised, \u201cMental health isn&#8217;t always about seeing a therapist or a psychiatrist, sometimes it&#8217;s about becoming involved in your community. It\u2019s about making those connections, feeling you belong.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why University resources like CAPS are continuously reaching out to campus leaders, departments, colleges, centers and faculty across campus to enlist their support.<\/p><\/div><\/p><\/div>\n<p>\u201cI have a really wonderful team here at Counseling and Psychological Services that are involved in so much with the community and doing prevention and outreach services,\u201d says Friedman-Lombardo, \u201cbut also we have a <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/health-promotion\/\" target=\"_blank\">Health Promotion Department.<\/a> We have a wonderful <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/university-health-center\/\" target=\"_blank\">University Health Center<\/a>. Even all of the different types of support services through EOF [the Educational Opportunity Fund] or our Tutoring Center or the Career Center \u2013 places that really help students to feel connected and feel like they can make different types of resources that help students thrive and feel like they&#8217;re not in it by themselves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Over at Residence Life, Associate Director of Housing Services <strong>Kevin Schafer<\/strong> touts the work of the <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/msu-cares\/care-team\/#:~:text=The%20Crisis%2C%20Assessment%2C%20Response%20and,community%20members%20to%20be%20concerned.\" target=\"_blank\">Crisis Assessment Response and Education<\/a> (CARE) Team. \u201cAny students who come into the system are met with and connected with services.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Because of the pandemic, says Schafer, \u201cA lot of people are attuned to what\u2019s happening and they are quick to send us a note about their student to connect them with help.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople are trying to help each other a little more.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Virtual and in-person<\/h2>\n<p>Friedman-Lombardo noted that the pandemic created challenges and opportunities for mental health services.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll of our services went remote and that was a huge learning curve for us. It created some challenges in that privacy was a real issue for students who sometimes shared living space with other family members or maybe their Wi-Fi wasn&#8217;t working very well.\u201d On the flip side, remote services increased accessibility with some students finding it easier to work virtual sessions into their schedule.<\/p>\n<p>CAPS is retaining some of those virtual resources even with the return to campus. \u201cWe now have options,\u201d says Friedman-Lombardo.<\/p>\n<div class=\"prpl-row\"><div class=\"prpl-column one-third\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_216474\" class=\"responsive-image-holder wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mlt-responsive-image\" data-original-image=\"\/newscenter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/10\/Alisa-Hannah-scaled.jpeg\" src=\"\/responsive-media\/cache\/newscenter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/10\/Alisa-Hannah-scaled.jpeg.0.1x.generic.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of Alisa Hannah\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Alisa Hannah \u201921 found that working as a CAPS Mental Health Ambassador helped improve her own mental health. (Photo courtesy of Alisa Hannah)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><div class=\"prpl-column two-thirds\"><br \/>\nCAPS also has student mental health ambassadors to give students a peer-to-peer introduction to services.\n<p>\u201cI became a Mental Health Ambassador because I wanted to be able to better help the people in my environment fight through their mental health challenges and find help,\u201d says <strong>Alisa Hannah \u201921<\/strong> (Family Science and Human Development, concentration in Family Services; minor: Child Advocacy and Policy). \u201cReducing the stigma on campus was also a plus for the cause, and I still do in my personal relationships and daily interactions with others.\u201d<\/p><\/div><\/p><\/div>\n<h2>Trauma-informed teaching<\/h2>\n<p>Professor of Writing Studies <strong>Emily Isaacs<\/strong>, through her role as executive director of the Office of Faculty Advancement, has been helping to address how teachers can help students with their trauma \u2013 as well as deal with their own.<\/p>\n<p>In a workshop in August titled \u201cTrauma-informed practices for teaching,\u201d Isaacs took faculty members through an explanation of trauma, how to recognize it, and how to connect students with services. And she answered questions that faculty members themselves had about teaching in the ongoing pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>Isaacs noted that students are still suffering the effects of the pandemic despite the return to more in-person and on-campus activity.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSome students are feeling much better, but some are not,\u201d Isaacs said during the workshop.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSome people are going to like driving the campus and all the rigamarole, and some people are going to be really nervous. So we want to make class time full of all the stuff we couldn&#8217;t do on Zoom. So we want to be careful about lecturing PowerPoints. We want to make sure there is time for human engagement \u2013 with a mask. It&#8217;s doable. We want to support students who are having that experience.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Isaacs acknowledged, \u201cWe\u2019re not therapists. We don\u2019t have a direct role. We are just going to be good teachers with a little more empathy. We want to minimize the likelihood of re-traumatization and we want to maximize the possibility for academic success.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe can do some work not only as the instructor but also as the informed adult in the room,\u201d Isaacs told her peers. \u201cI don\u2019t have a background in public health, but I have a background in critical thinking and evidence-based reasoning. So I know how to show my students where the CDC website is, where the COVID-19 information page at Montclair State is. I\u2018m not a doctor but I can help [students] discover resources and critically evaluate information.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Supporting staff<\/h2>\n<p>Trauma can also be a factor for staff.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs much as it&#8217;s stressful for the students, it&#8217;s also significantly stressful for us,\u201d reports <strong>Thea Dyer<\/strong>, assistant director for Residence Life, which welcomed more than 5,000 students back to on-campus living this fall. \u201cI think we were really hopeful that with the vaccine, things were going to be a little easier this year. But students definitely have significantly more questions. They have this extra anxiety, so we&#8217;re getting lots of comments and things to work through with them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Schafer from Housing Services talked about the term \u201ccompassion fatigue.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s trauma, you know, it&#8217;s exhaustion. It\u2019s almost like crisis exhaustion,\u201d says Schafer. \u201cThe students are experiencing it, and so are we. I think sometimes we get vicarious trauma. We live it through our students.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Schafer notes that the stress and trauma extends to parents and families of students. \u201cParents have anxiety, because again, they&#8217;ve never sent their kid away and they&#8217;ve been protective of their child for the past 18 months with them not leaving the house.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Friedman-Lombardo notes that CAPS provides referrals for everyone at Montclair State.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe&#8217;re a student service, but we do absolutely provide referrals for faculty and staff.\u201d In addition she notes that there&#8217;s also an employee assistance program called <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/human-resources\/current-employees\/employee-assistance-program\/\" target=\"_blank\">CONCERN<\/a> that faculty and staff are eligible for. \u201cWhen folks do reach out to us, which they do regularly, we have a system with a referral.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Students learning to help themselves by helping others<\/h2>\n<p>\u201cI think COVID has increased mental health challenges for many people, especially college students,\u201d says <strong>Tryphena Esuruoso \u201921<\/strong> (major in Biology and a minor in Business),who is currently working full time as a medical scribe at a veterans hospital before, hopefully, entering medical school with plans to be an OB\/GYN.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_216473\" class=\"responsive-image-holder wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"mlt-responsive-image\" data-original-image=\"\/newscenter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/10\/101321_6208_Tryphena-Esuruoso-scaled.jpeg\" src=\"\/responsive-media\/cache\/newscenter\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/10\/101321_6208_Tryphena-Esuruoso-scaled.jpeg.0.1x.generic.jpg\" alt=\"portrait of Tryphen Esuruoso\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tryphena Esuruoso \u201921 says CAPS services helped her \u201ctake steps toward managing my own mental health. From being an Ambassador, I\u2019ve learned more ways to manage my mental health and advise those around me.\u201d<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cCollege is hard enough but the added element of virtual class and events can make this unimaginably hard,\u201d she adds. \u201cEven the methods to release stress and overcome burnout were virtual or isolated. On top of constant fear of contracting COVID, it\u2019s no surprise students could be struggling.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Esuruoso says that she always struggled with anxiety and depression, but the pandemic intensified it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGrowing up in an African household, culturally some things like this can be more taboo so I found it hard for me to speak on these.\u201d Nonetheless, Esuruoso became a CAPS Ambassador. \u201cOnce in CAPS, I felt like I got to understand my own subconscious stigma around mental health. I also got a chance to educate myself on many topics that revolve around and\/or impact mental health.\u201d Ultimately she utilized the CAPS services herself \u201cto help me take steps toward managing my own mental health. From being an Ambassador, I\u2019ve learned more ways to manage my mental health and advise those around me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hannah similarly says that working as a CAPS Ambassador \u201cwas helpful for my own mental health journey as well. I love to help and advocate for others. Since there are a lot of mental health struggles, small scale and large, for college students, it was really important to me to be knowledgeable about the topic and be able to help where I could or at least refer someone to services.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEventually, I learned to prioritize my mental health and work on myself,\u201d says Hannah. Her only regret: \u201cNot making use of CAPS services more.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>\u2018It\u2019s not one size fits all\u2019<\/h2>\n<p>Friedman-Lombardo says that, like so much at Montclair, the approach to mental health does not exist in a silo. Besides working with Health Promotion, the University Health Center, and the Office of Faculty Advancement, CAPS is continuously reaching out to campus leaders, schools, colleges and departments, as well as students.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt helps to know that we all have a common mission,\u201d she says. \u201cThen we work together because some students might not want to come to CAPS, but they&#8217;ll go to the Rec Center, or they&#8217;ll go to the Disability Resource Center or they&#8217;ll go to Health Promotion, and that&#8217;s great. It&#8217;s not like a one-size-fits-all situation for sure. It&#8217;s nice to have options for the way in which you want to engage and get the support that you need.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Story by <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/profilepages\/view_profile.php?username=barrmannm\" target=\"_blank\">Mary Barr Mann<\/a>. Photos (except where noted) by University Photographer <a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/profilepages\/view_profile.php?username=petersm\" target=\"_blank\">Mike Peters<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Resources<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/2020\/05\/01\/mental-health-month-creating-space-for-humanity\/\" target=\"_blank\">Counseling and Psychological Services <\/a>(CAPS)<\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/health-promotion\/\" target=\"_blank\">Office of Health Promotion<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/msu-cares\/care-team\/\" target=\"_blank\">Crisis Assessment, Response and Education<\/a> (CARE)<\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/human-resources\/current-employees\/employee-assistance-program\/\" target=\"_blank\">Employee Assistance Program<\/a> (CONCERN)<\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/counseling-and-psychological-services\/resources\/\" target=\"_blank\">links to outside resources<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>You might also like:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/2021\/02\/19\/getting-help\/\" target=\"_blank\">Getting Help<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/2020\/05\/01\/mental-health-month-creating-space-for-humanity\/\" target=\"_blank\">Mental Health Month: Creating Space for Humanity<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/2020\/03\/17\/taking-care-of-your-mental-health-during-covid-19\/?wp_logged_in=true\" target=\"_blank\">Taking Care of Your Mental Health During COVID-19<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/\/ Output tags as a list for Google Analytics custom dimension\nwindow.MSU_TagList = [];\n<\/script>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Red Hawks learn some mental health self-care is needed when you\u2019re trying to change the world<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":273,"featured_media":216470,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[123,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-216469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-homepage-news","category-university"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/273"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=216469"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216469\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":216482,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216469\/revisions\/216482"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/216470"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=216469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=216469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.montclair.edu\/newscenter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=216469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}